Quite fit ,sporty and very energetic plenty of stamina to last till dawn.very gentle allways let others lead and not to push to quickly. And I'm funny, so there's that! I dont have any strong preferences about physical appearnce, there just needs to that comfort zone and trust that allows a relaxed atmosphere from which excitement and fun can come..In my experience there is only one way to find out and u know how to do it many different ways. I treat others how I expect to be treated in return.